How to Leave the Nice Guys in the Dust

Most of us know that in order to get girls you can't be super nice. Much of us have probably heard the cocky and funny approach to getting girls.

But why is it that girls don't like it when guys are really nice?

Because guys that are too nice are too easy. They don't pose a challenge and come off as weak.

When you are too nice and compliment her every ten seconds and always open doors for her and pull out her chair and do all this other really nice stuff, it gets annoying.

Women also want to be challenged when they meet a guy. If a guy immediately is falling all over her and complimenting her all the time and it is obvious that he really wants her, she gets bored.

You need to present yourself as a challenge to them. You can do this by acting like she is as lucky to be with you as you are to be with her.

Don't act like you don't care because this can come off as being a jerk and for a lot of women that is a turnoff.

So present yourself as a challenge. How can you do this?

First of all go easy with the compliments. A compliment when you first pick her up for the date or whatever it may be is okay. But don't walk up to a girl for the first time and blurt out compliments.

A good strategy I like to use is coupling each compliment with almost an insult. For example you might go up to a girl and say "hey, i like that shirt, but I don't know if I like those shoes." Or something like that.

You can also make sure you don't come off as a nice guy by making sure you don't do whatever she asks. There are tests that women give guys and most guys fail them. For example, if you decide on a place and time for a date and then all of a sudden when it comes time for the date she wants to change it, tell her no you already decided on these plans and you want to do that.

This might seem rude and it can be hard to do, but it has to be done.

You have to find the fine line between being rude and being confident. This is going to take a lot of trial and error so get out there and try it!

Once you master these skills, you will be well on your way to getting all the girls you want!

Good luck.

Kenny